In my opinion, other people difenitely can not understand your thought.
When I see that my friend believe a rumor that has no basis and criticize me, I confirm this.
At such time, if the friend is in good terms with me, I explain to the friend directly.
Human being cannot understand other's feelings without oral description.
If I am not interested in the friends, I would do nothing,otherwise I would be exhausted.
As well as others can not understand you, you never understand others.
It is the worst to decide that others who do not understand you are evil.
If you want your thought to be made out by friends, you have to just explain yourself.